Relax and don't too serious. There's a will there's a way. While you still alive there's still a chance. What will need is to read her not by your mind but by your heart.
You are painful so does her. Sometimes love is too heavy too suffocating. Give some air and leave some rooms. Springs too tight will break apart.
Share her feelings and speak your heart. When time goes by and you two got old you will laugh at these silly days.